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The Necessity of Pruning Our Busy Lives

How going local and honoring our souls could save our world.
Hand-drawn illustration of honeysuckle. (Photo via Getty Images)
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I swore I would never join a book club, and yet here I was, on my way. 

For years, I told myself I took reading too seriously for a club. As an editor, I have too long a list of books to read to get distracted with someone else’s. But I had been feeling stressed by my busy life, and disconnected from relating with others through screens. So when my neighbor invited me, I figured: Maybe a local book club was just what the doctor ordered.

I kissed my boys goodnight, wished my husband an easy bedtime routine, and headed out the door with a novel under my arm. At the Bearded Lamb, our local pub, I found a group of women around a table sharing slices of focaccia and pistachio cake. My neighbor caught my eye and waved me over. “You’re on time. We haven’t even started talking about the book yet.”

I ordered a hazy IPA and listened as the women finished a conversation about health issues. I was eager to talk about something serious: the craft of the writing, plot pacing, the chances the writer took and the ones she didn’t. But besides my own, there wasn’t another copy of the book in sight. 

Estee Zandee is a writer and an editor at Penguin Random House Christian Group.

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