Are the gender wars back? With viral TikToks of tearful millennials lamenting the “total nightmare” of modern dating, polls throughout the election season showing Gen Z men and women diverging politically, and reports of women embracing the abstinent 4B movement in response to Donald Trump’s presidential win, it sure seems so.
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As the sexes drift further apart, a Victorian novel reminds us why friendship between men and women matters.

'A Farm at Betws-y-Coed' by David Cox. (Photo by: Sepia Times/Universal Images Group via Getty Images)
'A Farm at Betws-y-Coed' by David Cox. (Photo by: Sepia Times/Universal Images Group via Getty Images)



